tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post368962721114572622..comments2023-05-16T19:59:30.793+05:30Comments on Life - As I See It!: Your Well-being Is Your Responsibilityশর্বরী - Sarbarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-37488643740073771672010-09-06T15:18:21.341+05:302010-09-06T15:18:21.341+05:30@zephyr - yes, actually the irony is that our self...@zephyr - yes, actually the irony is that our self centricity is stemming not so much from being centered around ourselves as much as from not wanting to become a burden onto others. I think we are so scared to become an emotional or physiological "burden" that we have forgotten that community and individuality are two sides of the same existence and one is meaningless without the শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-90598820970000761302010-09-06T15:12:30.961+05:302010-09-06T15:12:30.961+05:30That was a very introspective post. I so agree tha...That was a very introspective post. I so agree that as people, who are the context most or all the time -- are becoming more and more self-centric and therefore have no tolerance for others. It is sadly beginning at home, thanks to the consumerist culture and skewed thought processes. <br /><br />Looking forward to the other post on why one should not be in a state of non-well-being!zephyrhttp://cybernag.innoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-45791279434100374422010-09-01T09:59:04.665+05:302010-09-01T09:59:04.665+05:30@Joy - Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving ...@Joy - Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving your comments here.<br /><br />Yes, the context as I see it is increasingly becoming over-demanding and at the same time demanding that people's emotional world remain static, i.e. stable, rational and functional and if there is a deviation, it must that person's fault for not being able to manage and be effective. This will, as you very শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-41328275607405729352010-08-31T23:49:57.618+05:302010-08-31T23:49:57.618+05:30Sharbori, Hi! Went through yr piece a couple of ti...Sharbori, Hi! Went through yr piece a couple of times. As I understand, the malaise perhaps lies in the changing nature of the context. For the category of people that u refer to, the context is becoming increasingly plastic. Plastic as in not natural. Treating human relationships as transactional is not natural. But that is what the context referred to is increasingly demanding, employer - jaidevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17287453609772392484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-1939314006818108052010-08-28T16:26:30.481+05:302010-08-28T16:26:30.481+05:30nice article..
A Silent Silence : Phoolon Se Khus...nice article.. <br />A Silent Silence : <a href="http://asilentsilence.blogspot.com/2010/08/phoolon-se-khushbu-churaane-lagi.html" rel="nofollow" title="A Silent Silence - Where Silence Says Something Beyond The Words">Phoolon Se Khushbu Churaane Lagi..(फूलों से खुशबू चुराने लगी..)</a><br /><br />Banned Area News : <a href="http://bannedarea.blogspot.com/2010/08/confirmed-katrina-is-single.html" Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-91833421717985315272010-08-24T23:06:42.731+05:302010-08-24T23:06:42.731+05:30@Suryatapa - thank you. good to hear from you. h...@Suryatapa - thank you. good to hear from you. how have you been?শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-72747000627770815602010-08-24T23:03:46.324+05:302010-08-24T23:03:46.324+05:30Very true and so so relevant in today's times....Very true and so so relevant in today's times....Thanks for such an insightful piece of writing..:)Suryatapahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12177307547008787520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-24505507930528983952010-08-24T13:50:23.395+05:302010-08-24T13:50:23.395+05:30@Mike - Thank you for your comment.
1. I am not ...@Mike - Thank you for your comment.<br /><br />1. I am not propagating that one should not take responsibility for one's feeling, in fact if one does not do it, then people will remain in a victim location forever. I am simply saying that there is limit to self sufficiency and processing all feelings about self and others by oneself. People can not live in emotional isolation, neither can শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-7153631366934989302010-08-24T13:37:16.104+05:302010-08-24T13:37:16.104+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-22005324284023980052010-08-24T00:30:17.426+05:302010-08-24T00:30:17.426+05:30I enjoyed your article - thank you. And I notice t...I enjoyed your article - thank you. And I notice that in your terms, taking responsibility seems to stop short of taking responsibility for your own feelings.<br /><br />For example, in your first story where does the mothers being hypercriticalness take place? I would suggest that it happens inside the woman - it's her interpretation - she's responsible for it.<br /><br />And who's mikebellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15941299964189170248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-56678774209584500022010-08-23T08:48:46.706+05:302010-08-23T08:48:46.706+05:30@Roop- Thank you. I think this trend makes us int...@Roop- Thank you. I think this trend makes us into individual warriors inside of us who is weary, stressed and desperate and on the outside, we are to be like a clone of every other person who is supposed to be rational and non emotional.শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-204196957807087746.post-54434840481644079742010-08-23T08:45:36.970+05:302010-08-23T08:45:36.970+05:30@Roop- I am copying below your very thoughtful com...@Roop- I am copying below your very thoughtful comment as the previous set up was not showing your comment: I hope you don't mind. I shall sort this out soon!<br /><br />Roop's comment on 22nd August:<br /><br />Sharbori, very insightful piece. I can completely relate to it - both in terms of where I have felt that the context is asking me to take care of myself and be functional, শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.com